Some things I thought about today.
There was a Asian
man, actually several of them, quickly making portraits of clay along
the Pacific Beach Park in Santa Monica. I traded my hat and sat as he
pushed, sqeezed, carved and moved the clay about until it looked like
me. I enjoyed my visit with him and will cherish the little scuplture.
I was told about a
Karate School that was working with inner-city kids. I went inside to
find a group of people relaxing after having conducted a garage sale to
help pay for the services provided their inner-city students.
I offered to place
a photograph
of their school on this web site and some of the instructors quickly stood
next to a wall for the photo shoot. A moment or two passed and the person
in charge came to say they had to be very careful about how their school
was portrayed.
This is; ofcourse,
true. But, I wonder how that can best be done. More, how it is portrayed
and to whom.
I have spent many
years working with inner-city youths. I find
them to be not that much different than any other youths. Children
follow the strongest leader they
find available. It is often best when it is both parents, or even one.
Still, sometimes it is a Girl Scout or Boy Scout leader, a supportive
realtive or sometimes it is another youth. In these cases, often it is
disasterous. This is true in our inner cities - and in our suburbs.
Inner-city children
live in a world
where fear dominates many aspects of their lives. Those who choose to
attempt to lead them out of that life must be prepared to serve as role
models. As much as children may listen, the are far more likely to follow
the actions displayed by those about them.
Teaching Karate may be used to offer a means to achieve courage. It may.
When the instructors circled about me and decided not to have their pictures
taken, their words and their actions reflected fear. I believe their fear
of how their school might be projected was just that: fear. Facing the
world without concern how others might see us requires courage.
I live in the same, very scary world they do. We all do. If we do not
choose to take on the role of leader, we can live our lives as we choose.
Some of us will jump off cliffs and others will lock themselves behind
closed doors. That is a part of what makes this nation wonderful. If we
choose to take on the challenge of leadership, we cannot hide in the comfort
of our own facades, we must life life honestly and courageously, regardless
of how others might percieve or project us.
These words are written
with a great love of all these individuals are attempting to do. It is
only my perspective on things. Certainly not the only one. If they respond,
I will place their responce here: unedited.
I hope they do.
STITCHING
is an ART!
YARN SHOP
This is the name of
a little shop on Pico St. in Santa Monica. I walked into the shop and
was greeted by a wonderful group of women and a young girl, all busy doing
something with yarn. I thought it would be nice to add their yarn to ours.
The women chatted with me for a while before I left. They shared a few
stories with me and I with them. Certainly I was not the normal person
walking in their door, but they treated me with great respect and diginity.
It should be said, most of the time I find Americans doing what we do
best. Accepting the challenges that we face, and passing our courage on
to the next generation. And, that is what I saw in that yarn shop.
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